送交者: apate 于 2005-1-03, 18:57:33:
回答: 除了德育方面外，偶觉得刘氏父母的教育方法很好 由 xj 于 2005-1-03, 18:45:17:
their self-claimed pedagogy is one thing, which is certainly disputable. their manner of selling it is another thing, which again is now in serious doubt. let me say more about the second.
notice how they taught their kid to PLEASE the American interviewer. (cf. Xiao Yu's latest thread) what kind of message are they sending to the impressionable kid? oh my god! the fact that such self-deceptive and other-deceiving ways of coping with interviews among those going abroad does not mean it is moral at all. of course it is in part a matter of degree in dealing with telling the truth vs. being persuasive. but once a person crosses the line, he or she is doubtless guilty of immorality - because it is a lie.