are somehow sensitive.it's appreciated that a 40 something man still feels and cares what other people say.

You don't need to declare more than once that you are financially poor .it sounds like that you are showing off that you are spiritually superrich.

Why not thinking this way, no matter you are rich or not, no matter you bring $800 handbags or $20 ones, you can only catch the eyeballs from certain group,nobody else will give a damn on it.