When you said "受了太多" you meant "too much". However, when I asked you what was wrong with it, you changed to "而是不够", which means "only ... is not enough". I don't understand how these too concepts are connected. Were you trying to win an argument by mixing these concepts? I am really curious about why you feel we are fed too much“你敬我一尺，我敬你一丈”, I thought that is a very good idea. In fact, this is one of the evolution strategy I read from a Banzhu's article.