In US for a native Chinese in a relative sense.

Now it is also challenging for an ordinary Chinese American to return and to be successful in China.

You could be happy thouth either way, if you be true to yourself, pay attention to to the details of everyday life, and take your work seriously.

In the end, there's no difference between here and there. The person on the other side has the same dream, struggle, success and frustration. If you really understand your life on this side, you will be more understanding to the life on other side.

Sometimes you don't like the other side, because the formality and disguise are different. Underneath is the same humanity trying to survive and flurish in different environment.