“间接道歉”的艺术

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送交者: eddie 于 2008-05-15, 10:47:26:

“间接道歉”是十几年前开始在美国流行起来的公众人物向公众道歉的一种方式。这次公布的CNN道歉信，如果是真的话，就是一个典型的间接道歉。

这种道歉就是主角并不为自己说或做了什么而道歉，而是为对方（自认为）受到的伤害而道歉。反过来说，如果对方自己没有觉得受伤害，那主角便没有什么错，也就无需道歉。

这种道歉一般也都是因为对方抗议所导致，不是出于真心。这一类道歉的流行只是凸显出“要求对方道歉”这种行动如何荒唐。

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原来还有这种道歉 - alpha000001 (34 bytes) 2008-05-15, 10:57:09 (226955)
也可能白大哥发现温总昼夜不停地前线抗灾深感内疚，收回了对中国政府的指责。 (无内容) - Amsel (0 bytes) 2008-05-15, 10:55:02 (226952)
Maybe what you said is true. But I think that it's still better - yell (145 bytes) 2008-05-15, 10:52:53 (226950)
- what's wrong with negative comments? Make you stronger unless U R too weak (无内容) - 粪青 (0 bytes) 2008-05-15, 10:59:12 (226958)
  - That bordered stereotyping, no only negative - prandtl (59 bytes) 2008-05-15, 11:08:50 (226971)
    - There is nothing wrong with stereotyping - eddie (75 bytes) 2008-05-15, 11:12:41 (226974)
      - I agree. But still somebody has to voice the concern. - prandtl (61 bytes) 2008-05-15, 11:19:48 (226979)
  - I agree with you. But negative doesn't equal to offending. - yell (150 bytes) 2008-05-15, 11:01:34 (226960)
    - Respect Can't Be Demanded - eddie (20 bytes) 2008-05-15, 11:13:45 (226976)
      - I understand what you are saying. But in the real world, if you don't demand - yell (99 bytes) 2008-05-15, 11:59:40 (227020)
- That is the problem - eddie (27 bytes) 2008-05-15, 10:58:25 (226957)
- better than nothing? better for what? for 意淫？ (无内容) - 董愚 (0 bytes) 2008-05-15, 10:55:08 (226953)
  - better than the situation people calling Chinese whatever they want. - yell (122 bytes) 2008-05-15, 10:59:52 (226959)
    - And What's Wrong With That? - eddie (146 bytes) 2008-05-15, 11:01:54 (226961)
      - If you really really don't care what other people call you, - yell (174 bytes) 2008-05-15, 12:01:35 (227021)
你说得太对了:这一类道歉的流行只是凸显出“要求对方道歉”这种行动如何荒唐 (无内容) - 粪青 (0 bytes) 2008-05-15, 10:51:25 (226948)

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