Once I went to their Sunday church, met two tall, blonde sisters with shinning twinkling soul-eating blue eyes, unmarried, no boyfriend, can READ 繁体字 and 简体字. Phenomenally better looking than my then girlfriend. Not bad at all as wife candidates. They even could explain to me what does 彰显为圣 mean in Chinese (三年高中我也就这个水平)

God has its power. If you could manage to get on with one like this, you might need to join the worship, but no one is going to test how authentic you are.